On Moose Taunting...


Last week at a middle school in Palmer, Alaska, a moose wandered onto the school property. When a group of students who were outside for PE class spotted the moose, they began to taunt the moose (now how one taunts a moose, I have no idea). The moose became so frightened that it threw itself repeatedly into a wall and ultimately died as a result of its injuries. The students were disciplined for their mistreatment of the moose. The principal held an assembly to reinforce proper behavior around moose in order to prevent a similar situation from occurring again.

Animal lovers especially will look at this incident and think, "How cruel! I hope those students pay for their crime!" And I would agree, it is a shame that the actions of these students led to the death of this moose. But I wonder how often we do similar things - not to animals but to our fellow human beings? We may not be so overt in our "taunting" of one another, yet I think we are guilty of taunting far more than we realize. Consider the following dictionary definition of the word taunt: "to reproach in a sarcastic, insulting, or jeering manner; mock." All too often I hear people (self included!) cut others down with a sarcastic comment. But as Christ-followers, the standard for our speech to others is clearly laid out for us in Ephesians 4:29 which reads, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but ONLY what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen" (emphasis mine). You see, whenever we open our mouths to talk to another person - our words should be for THEIR benefit - not ours!!! Think about that today as you talk with the people you encounter.

Thanks for stopping by . . .

pj

Back in Town with Some Random Thoughts

Finally after a week of vacation and a two day police chaplaincy conference, I am back in town in the office and trying to figure out what I need to do first! But before I tackle the rest of my TDL (To Do List) I thought I would post some random thoughts for you to think about.

1. Vacations are a great time to work on significant relationships in one's life. This past week was a wonderful experience for my wife, Sharon and I. We spent a bunch of quality time together. Hours of driving in the car (and driving to South Carolina and back I do mean hours!) gave us plenty of time to just talk - and that doesn't include all the time we spent talking as we walked and ate and just "hung out" together. It made me realize that during our non vacation time (which is by far the bulk of our year!) - we must be sure to make time for each other to just talk!

2. Even though my wife and I were sad when it was time to return home - there is still a good feeling that I experience every time I pull into my driveway after being away for a time. Home is home. For me, it is my favorite place on this planet. It is where I can "kick back and relax." It is where I always find acceptance. In my book, there is no place like home! My heart goes out to people who don't have the loving home experience that I have. I heard a story yesterday from a police officer about a woman who took her five year old daughter and stuck her in the dryer because she was making too much noise. And she went on to turn the dryer on! (fortunately the daughter suffered only minor physical injuries - but what about the psychological scars she will bear for the rest of her life?). All this to say - strive to make your home a safe place, a secure place, a place where love, acceptance and grace reign! Let's strive to "accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted (us), in order to bring praise to God" (Romans 15:7).

3. Time is moving forward on its relentless march. I was reminded of this when Sharon and I stopped to have lunch in Holden Beach, NC. This is where we spent our honeymoon - soon to be thirty one years ago. Holden Beach is a small town located on a small strip of land sandwiched between the Atlantic Ocean and the Intracoastal Waterway. The town consists primarily of two rows of houses - one row along the beach the other the waterway. The house we stayed in faced the beach. As we drove across the bridge into Holden Beach - we saw little that looked familiar. Granted memories fade somewhat over 3 decades ... but even with that we noted numerous changes. As for the house in which we stayed - it is no longer there. It has been replaced by a larger newer home. But the beach is still there and it still looked the same :) - so we took our lunch and blanket and enjoyed our lunch on the beach. Given this reality of time's forward march - let's all determine to be always "making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil" (Ephesians 5:16).

Thanks for stopping by . . .

pj

The Pain Behind the Badge

Well ... the inevitable occurred. My week long vacation came to an abrupt end on Sunday. As I type out this blog posting, I am sitting in a room at a conference center in Carlisle, PA where I am attending a regional training conference sponsored by the International Conference of Police Chaplains. Today's sessions have centered on the growing problem of police suicide. Consider the following stats: every year in this country somewhere between 150-175 police officers are killed in the line of duty. In comparison, each year sees anywhere from 350 - 400 officers die of their own hand (or approximately one police suicide every day in the U.S.). That is a sad and sobering statistic.

Today's seminar focused on the pain that police officers experience on the job and the toll that pain takes upon them. And because most police officers do not deal with stress in healthy ways (after all, they are cops and cops have to be tough!) - when the stress grows to unbearable levels, some officers see suicide as their only option. Today's presenter, Clarke Paris, is a Sgt. with the Las Vegas Metro PD. He recently produced a documentary film on law enforcement stress and police suicide (an outstanding film that EVERY cop should see! For a preview of the film, check out the following link: http://www.thepainbehindthebadge.com/thefilm.html).

I must say that when the final afternoon session was done (about 4:15) I felt emotionally drained. But I also felt a burden for the men and women who face the worst evils of society so that the rest of us don't have to! So let me ask you as you sign off my blog -- please pray for the law enforcement officers who serve our community. Many of them carry a lot of pain behind their badge!

Thanks for stopping by . . .

pj

Heading Out of Town!

Dictionary.com defines a vacation as "a period of suspension of work, study, or other activity, usually used for rest, recreation, or travel; recess or holiday." As of 1 PM today (Sunday) - my wife and I will be heading south on I-95 for a week of vacation. I will be suspending my work at church in order to get some R and R (rest and recreation). Our road trip will include stops in Chester, VA (just south of Richmond), Walterboro, Beaufort and Charleston - all in South Carolina. SOOO ... this will be my final blog posting until I return from the sunny (I hope!) south. Until then ... remember to keep your knees on the floor, your heart in the Book and your eyes to the sky!

Thanks for stopping by . . .

pj

Too Much of a Good Thing and the Temple of God . . .

Recently, people in Painesville, Ohio were astonished when they turned on their tap water to get a drink. Instead of clear water filling their glasses ... the water was pink! And for someone like me who is not really a pink fan, it must have been quite the surprise! It all happened due to an Ohio Water Company equipment malfunction. A chemical feeder designed to release potassium permanganate (used for taste and odor control), poured too much of the chemical into the water, causing the pink color. The water company got right on the problem and by the next day, the water was back to normal!

This shows us that even a good thing - if it is used too much - can be too much! I think all of us should give this some thought, especially when it comes to the care of our physical bodies. Yes, that's right - I said "the care of our physical bodies." Why is this important? I will let the Apostle Paul speak to this. He writes, "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body" (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). One way we honor God with our bodies is to take care of them. And among other things that means not eating too much! I say this because gluttony just may be the most "acceptable" sin in American Christianity. Food is good (often TOO good!). We need it to survive and thrive. But, as the citizens of Painesville, Ohio found out - too much of a good thing is ... after all, TOO MUCH! So the next time you are tempted to go for seconds on that delicious meal or order dessert to top off that wonderful entree at Olive Garden, ask yourself, "Does God's temple really need this additional food? Or is it TOO MUCH?"

Thanks for stopping by . . .

pj

OUCH! When Another Member of the Body Is Hurting!

This past Saturday evening I was involved in a collision. No, it did not involve my vehicle and it did not occur on some suburban street. Rather it all happened in a split second right in my own living room. My little toe on my right foot, moving at a high rate of speed, encountered an immovable object. And my toe lost! Writhing in pain, I collapsed on our sofa. When I finally opened my eyes and took a look at my toe, I noted that it was sticking outward from the rest of my foot (and usually it hugs closely my fourth toe) at about a 45 degree angle. At that point I knew it was broken. My first thought was, "Why did this happen the evening before Easter Sunday??!!" I spent the rest of the evening with an ice pack on my toe and keeping it elevated. And the next morning, in spite of my best efforts, I was unable to wear a shoe on my right foot. So I wore a slipper instead. One person who saw me in the hallway at church asked me if I was wearing the slipper as part of a sermon illustration I was planning!

Today, five days after my injury, the toe is still hurting - especially when I wear a shoe (so right now as I am sitting in my office, I am wearing a slipper on that foot). And when I walk ... I do so with a limp. This has caused me to experience some pain in other parts of my right leg and knee (my doctor warned me about this). Yea! All this due to a small broken bone (one of the smallest in the body) - and that little broken bone lets me know all day long that it is hurting!

The Body of Christ should be like this. When one member hurts - all of us should feel the pain. However, all too often, we don't. Why is this? I think at times we can become very self-focused. We have our own problem ... issues ... and pain to deal with. And so we grow indifferent to the needs and pain of others. There are other times that we are just plain too busy. As a result, we get so tied up in doing whatever, that we have no time to really feel the pain of others. But whatever the reason, this ought not to be! If you are a member of the Body of Christ, then you are called upon by God to minister to those who are hurting. The Apostle Paul makes this clear when he writes, "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2). In referring to burdens, he is not talking about those things that God expects us to carry (for he says in Galatians 6:5, "for each one should carry his own load.") Rather he is talking about those very difficult things that bring us pain that are just too big for us to carry on our own.

Sooooooo --- stop and take a look around you. Is there a brother or sister in Christ who is hurting and could use some relief? Reach out. Help shoulder their burden. In doing so, you will be fulling the law of Christ (which is to love one another even as HE has loved us!).

Thanks for stopping by . . .

pj

TOMORROW IS APRIL 15! AGAIN???!!!

It is inevitable (unless the return of Jesus intervenes!). You can bank on it. April 15th will roll around and with it the deadline to file your tax returns. I always work ahead. This year, I completed my federal and state returns sometime in February and my local return last week. But there are many ... millions ... who wait until the last minute. This is why post offices remain open to midnight on April 15 and why some Internet sites crash due to the onslaught of e-filers who are e-filing their tax returns as April 15th reaches its conclusion. It is called procrastination. And with millions of taxpayers procrastinating - there are probably millions of reasons as to why they do so! But no matter the reason for their procrastination, the deadline will not yield -and even though many opt to file an extension request, all must file something!

For followers of Jesus Christ, there is coming in the future another day of accounting. Unlike the IRS's day of accounting, the date is unknown. But like our April 15 tax deadline, this future day of accounting for Believers will take place. You can count on it. Paul mentions it in 2 Corinthians 5:9-10 where he writes, "So we make it our goal to please him, whether we are at home in the body or away from it. 10For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad."

SOOO ... are YOU preparing for that Day? And keep in mind there will be NO extensions granted!

Thanks for stopping by . . .

pj

Take Time to Rest!

 Recently, my wife and I took a few days off and headed to Ocean City, Maryland. On the way home, we stopped at Rehoboth Beach. There we enc...