Friday Coffee with PJ (Good Friday Edition)

Thanks for joining me this morning. Usually I write this post on Thursday. Yesterday, however, was interrupted by an unplanned and unwelcome trip to the local ER. Appears that the sharp flank pains I was experiencing were the result of post surgery (March 8th with stent removal March 20th) ureteral spasms and inflammation of my left kidney. I returned home late afternoon and the pain, thankfully, subsided. I was told that it could take up to 3 months for everything to settle down. This morning (Friday), the pain is still present but nothing like yesterday. Would appreciate your prayers! Thanks! 

*Update (Friday 1:30 pm). Just got off the phone with my urologist (who did the surgery). He reviewed the CAT scan and noted that some urine had leaked from the incision he had made in the ureter which would lead to discomfort. He also told me he was a bit concerned with the degree of hydronephrosis (swelling) of my left kidney. He wants to do a ultrasound in two weeks to check on that. 

So ... with all of that ... and with Sunday coming (and a sermon to prepare), I leave you with the following quote from John Stott: 


“Even the excruciating pain could not silence his repeated entreaties: ‘Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.’ The soldiers gambled for his clothes. Some women stood afar off. The crowd remained a while to watch. Jesus commended his mother to John’s care and John to hers. He spoke words of kingly assurance to the penitent criminal crucified at his side. Meanwhile, the rulers sneered at him, shouting: ‘He saved others, but he can’t save himself!’ Their words, spoken as an insult, were the literal truth. He could not save himself and others simultaneously. He chose to sacrifice himself in order to save the world.” 



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Friday Coffee with PJ

It's that time of the week .... Friday ... coffee ... and a few random thoughts I hope are of help to you on your spiritual journey! 

1. Wow! That's a good word choice to describe what happened here in Lancaster County on Wednesday, the first full day of spring. Someone forgot to tell Old Man Winter that his time was up ... because the clouds above dumped a good foot of snow in my driveway! So I spent more time than I would have liked clearing out my driveway and cleaning off our van. This is the second winter in a row in which our largest snowfall has arrived in the month of March. As far as I am concerned, April can't arrive soon enough! But I must admit, as I gaze out my office window while inputting on my computer, the snow covered landscape is quite beautiful! And, of course, every time I see this beautiful white blanket of snow, I am reminded of a particular verse from the prophet Isaiah: "Come, let us settle this," says the Lord. "Though your sins are scarlet, they will be as white as snow; though they are crimson red, they will be like wool" (Isaiah 1:18).

God is talking about how he deals with all of our sin once we come to him on his terms. And just what are his terms? According to Jesus, they are to "repent and believe the gospel" (Mark 1:15). If you want to learn more of what Jesus meant by this, I invite you to check out Two Ways to Live: The Choice We All Face

2.  Often throughout the Bible we run across God's call for us to be humble. But humility can be quite evasive ... kind of like trying to catch a greased pig. Once you think you are humble you begin to feel proud about it! So, what can we do to strive for humility? Here's a few suggestions which I have found helpful (ouch,.did I just write that proudly?) . . . 

- Constantly remind yourself of your own insufficiency while trusting in Christ's all-sufficiency (2 Corinthians 3:5)

- Think more of others than you do yourself (Philippians 2:3-4) 

- Don't compare yourself with others, but rather examine yourself using Christ as the standard (Galatians 6:4)

- Ask God to help you to "humble yourself under the mighty hand of God" (1 Peter 5:6)

Thanks for stopping by . . . 
pj

Friday Coffee with PJ

It's Friday ... so pour yourself a cup of your favorite of get-up-and-go juice and join me for a couple of brief thoughts! 

1. I missed posting last week due to an outpatient surgical procedure which I underwent on Thursday. Sharon and I arrived at the hospital about 12:45 pm. By the time I went through the surgery (which was delayed for about an hour) and recovered enough to stand up without going sideways, we were the last to leave the outpatient recovery area (about 6:30 pm). 

Since being home, the recovery has been slow but steady. As I write this, the pain has morphed more into a general discomfort (due primarily to the ureteral stent which I still have in place). In sharing some of the negative symptoms of this stent yesterday morning with some of my staff, one woman told of the affect of pregnancy upon a woman's bladder. "I can identify with you in what you are going through!" I walked away, glad I don't have nine months to wait for this stent to be removed (in case you are wondering, my due date is next Tuesday, April 20th). 😉

All this said, thanks so very much for your concern and prayers for my recovery. I am trusting, hoping, praying that this procedure will resolve the problem and allow my left kidney to empty properly. 

2. This past Monday I "celebrated" my 62nd birthday. I spent the day lounging around the house (not by choice, by the way!). My wife worked hard to make it a special day. And she succeeded! As she was on some errands, she ran into an incredible clearance sale of some winter attire. Since she had not bought me a birthday gift yet (she claims I am difficult to buy for!), she purchased for me a few articles of clothing for almost next-to-nothing. She also brought me a Cinnabon, which served as my birthday cake replacement. That evening, my son and his family came over. They stuck a candle in a giant chocolate chip cookie and sang the Happy Birthday song to me! Since the cookie was indeed GIANT there was plenty to go around! Oh, and before I forget, I had many texts, several calls and cards from people wishing me a happy birthday (not to mention visits from all the other "little kids" the day before). 

By the end of the day, in spite of the pain and fatigue which still lingered from the surgery, I felt good. I felt special. I felt loved. 

That's something we all want to feel, isn't it? If you are not feeling loved today, take a moment and think about the cross of the Lord Jesus Christ. The Apostle Paul writes that it is in the cross that God 
"proves his own love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us" (Romans 5:8). Have you embraced the love of Jesus Christ for you? If you have any questions as to what this means, please take a moment to check out, Two Ways to Live: The Choice We All Face.

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pj

Friday Coffee with PJ

I am gulping down a cup of coffee as I write this. I got quite a bit behind my time this week (just a little bit more busy than usual) ... so here is an abbreviated version of Friday Coffee with PJ!

On the wall I face while sitting at my desk are numerous pictures of family members, friends and missionaries. As they stare back at me, I offer up a pray for them! And I am reminded of just how rich my life is because God, in his providential plan, has crossed my path with all of these people! 

The most used word in the Newer Testament of the Bible for Christians ... is NOT the word "Christian." This word only appears three times! The word most often used to refer to God's people is the word "brethren" (or as we would say today, "brothers and sisters" - occurring some 200 times or so). The point our God is making is that the universal church is a FAMILY! His family! And I am so glad that due all to God's grace (undeserved merit) I am a member of his family! What a joy it is to be numbered among God's children! And furthermore, I am VERY grateful to God that in his providential plan he led me (over 28 years ago) to my church family here at Grace Church at Willow Valley. There is no where else I would rather be than right here, serving this family of believers for Jesus' sake! 

Thanks for stopping by . . . 
pj

PS -- If you want to investigate what it means to be a Christian, please click here. 

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